Why Families Choose HFA
HFA meets you where you are! When you get connected you can expect:
No assumptions, no judgment
You can bring your fears, emotions, worries, concerns, questions, and more to us. We’ll be there to validate what you’re feeling and care for you in that moment. Also, we know parenting can make life chaotic—we don’t expect you to have a clean house, have showered, or anything like that. We are human just like you; there is no judgment from us on any of that.
Lots of encouragement!
We are always looking for and celebrating those moments of joy between parents and their kids, and we want to help bring joy to your life as well.
We are encouraging and supportive, and we like to celebrate BIG with you when you reach new parenting milestones!
Someone who cares about your whole family
HFA isn’t just about you, and it isn’t just about your baby. It’s for your whole family – and we believe “family” is whoever you say it is – all types of aunties, grandpas, caregivers, family friends, and more are often part of our family units. And oftentimes, HFA parents have more than one child. So, if another child in your family needs something, we’ll help. Your family as a whole is working to find new housing? We’re there to support everyone.
Someone you can rely on in hard moments
Many parents in HFA have experienced, or are currently experiencing, high levels of stress. Sometimes, the stress comes from lacking access to basic needs, like adequate food, clothing, and a place to live. Sometimes, the stress comes from other relationships in your life. Sometimes, there are critical health needs or concerns. Sometimes, the stress comes from just being a new parent and not having anyone to support you. You’re not alone. Whether you’re experiencing these kinds of things now, previously, or in the future, we are here to support you in the midst of it all.
Someone who will pay attention to your needs
Your baby benefits from having healthy and supported caregivers, so we want to support you in having the resources you need to take care of your needs so you can take care of your baby. That means we’ll also ask about things that might be coming up for you. We’ll talk about all sorts of things, like how your mental health impacts you and your family. If you want support with this, we’ll work to get you connected in whatever way feels best to you. It might mean counseling, or it might mean that we take some time to talk about how you can reduce your stress and take care of yourself. And if you change your mind about something, we can come back to it at a later visit.
Access to community supports
When we don’t have the answer to a question you have, or when you need something we’re unable to provide directly, we won’t just let your questions and needs linger. We are well-informed about other resources in our community, and if there is a community resource that can help meet your needs, we’ll help you connect to them. If you have questions we don’t know the answers to, we will learn alongside you, and we’ll both grow together.
We partner with you to help the children in your life thrive
We are experts in parent-child relationships
In particular, we are experts in parent-child relationships! One of the most important things we’ll do with you and your family is observe and respond to the interactions between you and your child. All the little moments between you both add up over time and tell us about the quality of the relationship that is developing. We will support you in building a nurturing relationship with your child—the kind of relationship that makes a child feel safe and comforted.
You are the expert on your family
While we might have expertise in parent-child relationships, you are the expert on your family. You’re with them constantly, seeing every little change in your child. And we’ll build off that expertise – the things you notice and are curious about! Who you are is also influenced by your life up until this point, and as you bring forward the stories of your own experiences and your values, we’ll build on those things as you explore how all of that informs your journey as a parent.